In a small bowl, mix the spice rub ingredients. This may be done well in advance and stored in an air-tight container.
In a different bowl, mix all of the sauce ingredients *except* for the butter. This may be done up to a few days in advance and stored, covered, at room temperature.
Preheat oven to 400 degrees F. Line a large baking sheet with foil for easy cleanup. Place a baking rack or ovenproof cooling rack on top of the foil, and brush or spray with oil. (The rack allows the air to circulate, drying out the skin on both sides of the wings. If you do not have a rack, grease the foil and turn the wings halfway through the cooking time.)
Place half of the wings in a large zipper-top bag. Sprinkle with *half* of the spice rub and shake until coated evenly. Place the wings on the prepared baking rack so they are not touching. Add the remaining wings to the bag, sprinkle with the rest of the spice rub, shake to evenly coat, and place on the baking rack.
Bake the wings in the upper middle portion of the oven for 45-50 minutes. (If the wings are cooked but you would like them to be a little browner, move the oven rack approximately 6 to 8 inches from broiler and briefly broil. Flip the wings and broil the other side. Watch _very_ closely so the wings don’t burn. The need for this will vary based on oven and personal preference.)
The prep for the sauces is the same**: Immediately after removing the wings from the oven, melt the butter in a small saucepan over medium heat. Add the remaining sauce ingredients and bring to a simmer, stirring occasionally. Reduce heat to low and cook until slightly thickened, stirring often, approximately 3-4 minutes. (Take care not to overcook the sauce and make it too thick.) At this point, you may taste and add additional hot sauce for a spicier sauce or more honey for a sweeter sauce.
Place the cooked chicken wings in a large bowl, and pour the sauce evenly overtop. (There is enough sauce to liberally coat the chicken, so you may wish to save a little to serve on the side.) Gently toss the wings until evenly coated. Serve with optional dressing and/or celery and enjoy!