What happens when a dear friend requests a spot-on replica of the utterly perfect cupcakes her mom used to make๏ผminus the dairy and gluten? You figure out a way, of course!
This cupcake recipe, however, is bigger than any one birthday or Valentineโs Day. It represents love and loss and how we can form everlasting bonds through food.❤️
Emma is one of my son Johnโs oldest and dearest friends. Sheโs the youngest of four girls, the oldest of whom babysat for our family years ago. Sheโs the daughter of longtime family friends, and quite coincidentally, her aunt was my college roommate.
As if that wasnโt enough connection, Emma grew up in the house that formerly belonged to my husbandโs grandparents. Small world indeed!
Less than a year ago, Emmaโs world was rocked when her mom, Ruth, died after a long, courageous battle with cancer.
When someone passes away, so many of us want to help. We drop off meals, in hopes that they will assuage some of the pain, but we know that no amount of soup or baked oatmeal will truly fill the void.
In talking with Emma as she struggled to piece together a new normal in the months following her momโs passing, it struck me how so many of her fondest memories with her mom were so intimately linked to food.
Fried green tomatoes and coconut cake were staples when mother and daughter traveled to Florida for Emmaโs equestrian competitions, and they led to talk about Ruthโs southern upbringing.
On ordinary school days, the dinner menu often included โEmmaโs Favorite Pastaโ โ the actual name in Ruthโs recipe Rolodex and basically a homemade version of Hamburger Helper. When Emmaโs dad was out of town, there would most assuredly be a taco or pancakes-for-dinner night, the latter of which were dotted with chocolate chips and served with a side of sausage.
โEgg Wednesdayโ was a recurring theme because Ruth figured that Emma needed a good protein-packed meal for the middle of the school week. It was Emmaโs favorite breakfast day. When Emma told me this, I could literally feel her motherโs love.
Ruth also loved to bake, and many of Emmaโs fondest memories are from the times she baked with her mom or simply sat in the kitchen and talked as she watched her mom whip up a favorite treat.
Ruth was also a great storyteller, and as they cooked, Emma always listened intently and felt like she was reliving her motherโs memories with her. Emma told me recently that she now finds herself returning to certain foods in an effort to bring back a part of her mom that her whole family misses.
Classic chocolate cupcakes were, without a doubt, Emmaโs most-loved dessert of all time. During her motherโs illness, however, Emma developed severe intestinal issues and for medical reasons was forced to remove dairy and gluten from her diet.
Recently, Emma asked me if we could possibly create a dairy- and gluten-free cupcake that tasted just like her momโs. In a split second, I answered yes.
Recreating a taste that linked Emma to a treasure trove of memories with her mom was essential. Failure was not an option.
Luckily, I had previously mastered a gluten-free variation of a much-loved Fulton family chocolate cake. To accommodate the dairy-free need, however, we had to replace two baking staples: milk and butter.
Almond milk allowed for successful elimination of the dairy in the cupcakes. (I opted for almond milk for the first go-round, as it’s one of the most widely consumed plant-based milks.) I bought vanilla almond milk by mistake, left the vanilla extract measurement the same and thought the flavor of the cupcakes was outstanding. A few more details follow in the recipe, but I’m nearly certain that other plant-based milks would work as well.
Replacing the butter in the frosting was more concerning, as butter adds a lot to an icing in terms of flavor and texture. After a bit of research, I settled on Earth’s Balance buttery sticks. (For those who may be interested, they are non-hydrogenated, soy-free, vegan and a good source of ALA Omega-3s.)
My younger son returned from swim practice as Emma and I were finishing up and promptly asked for a “sample.” He’s a reliable taste tester because he notices subtle changes๏ผand he has enjoyed this recipe many, many times in cake form.
With genuine enthusiasm, he commented that these might be a “best ever” batch๏ผand then quickly devoured a second and asked for a third. Oh to have a teenage boy’s metabolism, especially after sports practice. (I cut him off until after dinner!)
More importantly, Emma approved. Aside from spending quality time together, my singular goal was to create a cupcake that would take Emma back in time… to her own kitchen, listening to her mom tell stories, smelling the sweet aromas and ultimately sinking her teeth into chocolate perfection.
At the end of the day, the most important ingredient in Emma’s Favorite Cupcakes was suddenly so obvious.
It’s love.
And Ruth left Emma a never-ending supply.❤️
Helpful baking hints:
- Weighing the ingredients assures proper measurements. If you donโt have a kitchen scale, make sure to fluff up the flour and cocoa powder before spooning them into the measuring cups (rather than using the cup as a scoop, which compacts them) and leveling with the straight edge of a knife.
- Do not over-bake. Cupcakes often taste dry, simply because they were in the oven a few minutes too long. For cupcake success, check on the early side. To make an exact science out of this, insert an instant-read thermometer in the center of a cupcake and look for an internal temperature of 200 degrees F. (You might be surprised by how much better the cupcakes taste when taking the temperature instead of relying on the old toothpick test!)
Emma's Favorite Cupcakes (dairy- and gluten-free optional)
Ingredients
For the cupcakes
- 2 cups (400g) granulated sugar
- 1 3/4 cups (224g) all-purpose flour or a cup-for-cup gluten-free flour (like Bobโs Red Mill)
- 3/4 cup (60g) Hersheyโs cocoa (I use regular, not Dutch)
- 1 1/2 teaspoon baking soda
- 1 1/2 teaspoon baking powder
- 1 teaspoon kosher salt
- 2 eggs
- 1 cup (240ml) milk of choice*
- 1/2 cup (112g) neutral oil (I use safflower; canola or vegetable work well, too)
- 2 teaspoons (10ml) vanilla
- 1 cup (227g) boiling water
For the classic chocolate frosting
- 8 tablespoons (1 stick) melted butter (I recommend Earthโs Balance for dairy-free frosting**)
- 2/3 cup (54g) cocoa powder
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 3 cups (360 grams) confectionerโs sugar
- 4-6 tablespoons milk of choice*
Instructions
- Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F, and line cupcake tins for 24 cupcakes. (For not a speck of sticking, I like parchment liners, which are becoming more widely available.)
- Combine the dry ingredients in a large bowl. Add the eggs, milk, oil and vanilla. Beat with a hand or stand mixer until completely mixed, 30 seconds to one minute. Stir in the boiling water. The batter will be thin.
- Evenly divide among the 24 lined cups; they should be about 2/3 full. (Iโve made as few as 22, which is the point where they just start to creep over the edge when baked. For slightly smaller cupcakes you could increase the yield to 30 and check the oven a minute early.)
- Bake for 18-20 minutes, give or take a few depending on oven, or until the center is just cooked through. (If you want to be really precise, the internal temperature should be between 200 and 205 degrees F; 18 minutes is perfect in my oven.) Also keep in mind that dark-coated baking pans tend to cook a bit faster than light-colored pans. The trick to cupcake perfection is to remove them from the oven when they are just cooked through, so check on the early side to avoid overcooking.
- Cool the cupcakes for about 10 minutes in the pan, and then remove to a baking rack and cool completely. Frost as desired.
- I store the cupcakes in an airtight container or under a glass cake dome at room temperature. I think they actually taste better on day 2 and they taste fabulous for up to 4 days. (Theyโve never lasted longer than that!)
For the chocolate frosting
- In a mixing bowl (a quart-size Pyrex measuring cup also works well with many hand beaters and the butter or Earthโs Balance can be melted in it first), stir the cocoa powder into the melted butter. Stir in the vanilla, and then add half the sugar and half the milk.
- Stir to partially incorporate (I stir with the turned-off beaters โ this prevents a powdered sugar dust cloud), and then beat on medium speed, adding the remaining sugar and enough milk to achieve a smooth, creamy consistency. If necessary, add more milk by the scant-teaspoon โ a little goes a long way. Frost the cooled cupcakes and enjoy!
Notes
No use crying over spilt milk๏ผor cocoa powder as the case may be…even if you’re wearing new white canvas sneakers!
I’m partial to parchment paper cupcake liners. Cupcakes, muffins, and egg recipes made in muffin cups pop peel away easily with not a speck of sticking.
Hershey’s Cocoa Cake is a family favorite cake alternative.
Who can resist the classic combination of peanut butter and chocolate? Foolproof Peanut Butter Frosting offers a delightful alternative to chocolate on chocolate. โฉ
My husband’s birthday is just around the corner, and his top pick is always a classic caramel frosting. โฉ
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